A research illustrated near 70% parents thought they had adopted the love language to communicate with their children, but the children feedback was adversity.

Evangelical Lutheran Church Social Service-Hong Kong have interviewed the children whose study Primary 3 to Primary 6. The children felt that about 41% of parents has open mind, 10% is arbitrary and nearly 50% of parent was cool or autocratic.

Besides, in the academic, 62% Children hope their parents would be open mind; in fact, only 37% parents could meet their requirement. In the view point of parents, they thought they are adopting the autocratic management towards their children on academic; indeed, there was 31% parents being autocratic.

The Centre Officer expressed that parents are over dealing with the learning of children. Putting huge money and time to arrange the tutorial is the trace of conflicts. She believes that parents would adopt such Love Language as, praising, encouragement, appreciation, and the Love Language would nurture their children to be a respected and self-confident person.

(Translated by Editorial team of Googoogaga.)

(The above news is retrieved from ”Sky Post”26/08/2013)

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