Taking care of children is every parent's responsibility of a lifetime, things like accompanied by their healthy growth, the full absorption of knowledge, watching them fall, climbs up and share their success, fortune, joy.  Each phase of the children's development has it period so as the parent's responsibility, each stage must play different roles, such as teachers, doctors, psychologists, friends, games and other partners in multiple roles. After the child had grown up doesn't mean the parent's responsibility is finished, they still need to depend on their parent's example to learn how to stay strong in this challenging world independently, and how to be a great parents after.

For today's parents mastering a good teaching skill with their children will feel a sense of difficulty. The main reason is that they treat their children with their past traditional generation method,  too strict, and a restricted freedom for their children to choose their own rights. Other parents might over accommodate their children which could lead to out of control. How then should a competent parents be like ?

The following tips as a competent parent, please refer carefully.

Listen carefully:  the fusion of listening can enhance parent-child communication, to maintain a warmer, more intimate relationship. Parents will see differently from their child point of view. Parents must always remind themselves, knelt down, listen carefully to what children say because in the eyes of every children is quiet extraordinary, this is the first phrase into the child's world.

Set a good example:  be a good parent in order to foster high-quality children. Parent's own personality, behavior and mental life can bring a great influence to the behavior of their children , so parents need to be cautious in the family life, it is good from time to time to review for improvment.

Self-enhancement:  not only do parents need to enhance for their children, but also to conduct their own value. Parents need to pay attention to the local development of education and curriculum reforms, and pay attention to the community to provide resources, such as the Internet, reading books, listening to lectures, family line, with an open mind to learn and self-upgrade enhancement, to be a competent parent actually is quiet easy.

Accessibility of communication with their children:  want to communicate with the children accessibility, quality and quantity had to take into account. Spending time with children needs a driving force, patience and sense of responsibility, some parents training their children watch TV every day, with no eye contact and no interaction, it is poor communication. On the other hand, some parents may only have a free day once a week, that day they might teach them many things, but after a few days the child might forget everything that was taught, and this is another extreme.

The childhood period will past like a blink of an eye, for their children, parents sometimes have to sacrifice their personal interests, or so when the child is already grown up with everything is settle down to teach again, by this time often might be too late altogether.