In real life, fathers are usually busy striving in their career while mothers bear more responsibilities bringing up their children. Mothers of one type will develop children of the same kind. The personalities of mothers affect the growth of their children.

Type 1 - ★Cold and harsh type mother: Easy to develop the lonely-type children
Mothers’ manifestation: Some single mothers appear to be quite cold when it comes to feelings and emotions. Maybe they did not want to have a baby in the first place, or subconsciously perceive their babies as the root of their misfortune. These mothers seldom hold their babies in their arms and are very strict with their children. Some cold type mothers lack to good channel to air out their emotions, and are in a state of loneliness and depression. They are cold to their children, too.

Mentality of children: Children who grow up under such environment can easily be shaped into lonely children. Lonely children usually fear intimate touch, because they always come to naught in their cravings for mothers’ attachments, and therefore think they do not need them. Deep down inside the lonely children, there may hide an unreal self that looks independent, but are actually denying their own needs.

The vexation of growth: The character of lonely children is cool or even cold; they lack the passion for life and are not seeking it. They are usually very successful in their career, but their material needs are low. They are independent and highly tolerant. Their marriage lives are usually complicated. Most of those who are complained to be cold-blooded animals or ruthless belong to the class of lonely type.

Upbringing EQ: Children need love and touch a lot. In the western world, touch and hug are important methods to deal with children with autism. It is totally unreasonable, from the perspectives of the children or parents, to isolate children, and refuse to have bodily touch with them.