Be A Good Example, the important of Children Education
Recently circulated on the Internet, a Sichuan woman constantly hit another female passenger in the cabin of Chinese MTR. We do not comment on what is "Women of Mainland China", or they were right or wrong, put your sight onto children education, adult beating or fighting, is still public, it simply absolutely did not set a good example. From ancient history, philosophers and sages have mentioned many historical stories, such as "Shi Shuo Xin Yu" chronicles a lot of anecdotal notes, conversation novels in Eastern Jin Dynasty, some of them by examples the stories; Mother of Meng Zi moved three times is a typical example to tell the people around especially parents' behavior and learning how the environment affects children's growth, how to shape the future of children's personality; Today, more educated scholars illustrate how important to be an example; modern Canadian psychologist Albert Bandura (1925 -) advocates social learning theory (or mode) (Social Learning Theory), further affirmation of a child or adult behavior patterns are learned through learning, and therefore, we have not to emphasize how important of teaching by example. Some people has come to the sixties and seventies, he will tell you that today their behavior, has mostly influenced, driven or seen by their parents and learn to behave now; Simply, as now children swearing, hitting, rude, more or less derived from their parents' behavior; 1970s social Ecology (Socioecological) also mentioned children and parents are the first layer will mainly affect their personality and behavioral factors. Therefore, I respectfully request that parents try to give their children a positive role model, pay attention on their own behaviors; it is good for the image of your own personal or parental role. (Photo From The Internet)
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