Monster Parents is the popular topic. Monster Parents are not coming from Monster Incorporate, and most of the Monster Parents are scary  much more than the film. They wouldn’t change their “style” whatever the people discuss it constantly. There is a typical case.

The result of the Secondary School Places Allocation (SSPA) announced on July. A father could not stop his smiling, and a daughter could not stop his crying simultaneously. Why? In general, most parents feel more dismay than the children when they have gotten a disappointed result, especially the Monster Parents. In some cases, the daughter cries and the father will appease her, but this case is different. The father has been laughing while his daughter cried. What does it mean?

Father laughed at a fuss of daughter? The daughter couldn’t figure out? The answer is surprising. Father laughed and said he expected she could be allocated to Band one, girl school, and he got his wish, but, how about his daughter? It was not the crying tears of joy. She cried for the allocating of non-favourite school. Her father pointed out that she did look for the Co-educational school.

The daughter cried for disappointment, but the father smiled for fulfillment. Nevertheless, who is the student? Who will be at school on this September?

What is the meaning of the happiness of the father? To show off the result which his daughter could get the band 1 school or for what? Did he consider the student life of her daughter on the following 6 years? How does he project her school life in the non-favourite school? It is possible that she could adapt, she could confront the unhappiness……There are more and more positive things will happen.

Perhaps the parents thought the children couldn’t make the right decision, and they could “assist” the children to choose the better choice. In the sight of the children, however, it may not be the better choice. The children could study happily if they could study at the favourite school which has the not bad academic reputation. I believe the parents will have different reasons to support their thinking and actions. Actually, the problem is how we could prove our choice could make them health, cheerful and happiness? Moreover, most of the university students do not come from band 1 school. I would like to raise a question is the parents’ choices may not be wrong, but please consider or don’t negligent the children’s needs, ideas and opinions before making the decision for them.

Go back to that father I mentioned as above, even though he neglects the children’s needs, he couldn’t be complacent in front of his sad daughter. Result is unpredictable. If she thought her father did stand on the opposition probably as she was wounded. In this moment, the appeasement or companion would better express your concern.

When we discovered a three-foot ice between you and your children, we could break it by putting huge afford. It’s lucky, if the children explode the emotion immediately and we could tackle it at once. Unfortunately, as long as the children could grin and bear it, this is a risk of accumulating the pressure. She explodes the emotion at their adulthood will not affect the personality, characters, life only, the consequences would be disastrous.(The icture from The Internet)