Most of the parents don't like their child be a loser, and they have ever arranged their children start earlier than the others. Then, their children would be better than the others. However, where is the starting line?

Assisting the children to grow up, some parents do abuse misuse the famous theories. If the child learn all of them and preform all of them excellent, they would transcend the others. They will be elite. Actually, Could the child be an elite after learn these theories? C.E.O.? Scientist? They will succeed?

Where is the starting line? When we understand the nurturing, family education or parenting is the starting line. Therefore, we could project the future of the children from the parenting today. There is a percept of buddhism, "if you want to know what you did preceding life, you have to see what you have received today; If you would like to project the next life you will be, just to see what you do this life." IT's too abstruse. I don’t want to talk of this theory, but talk of the logical thinking. Because do this, so has that. Because you feel hungry, so you want to have food. It is because you feel suppress, so your emotion are trapped. Because unconsciously, so affect their future cognition, behaviours and the depositions......

Input the positive educational method, positive concept, constitutes the future positive behaviours; input faulty, even the negative educational method will induce many faulty behaviours. During our growth, no pressure, full of pressure, unwilling, anxiety, negative concept......which has been altered to positive exploration, autonomy, optimistic Healthy and happiness will come.

Parents are the starting line. But, there are many reasons that they don't like to admit. Nowadays, the children have been nurtured by the peculiar model of “Winning from the starting line” until they grow up. It is afraid of the children will be an external smart but their internal will be......that you could project.

Eddy

Registered Counsellor